![]() We're all guilty of undermining at some point in our relationship and at times without even realizing it. Life would be so much easier if everyone could follow that golden rule -Treat others the way you want to be treated. However, this is the real world and unfortunately life is not that simple. Here are a list of relationship underminers and enhancers. Bad mouthing your spouse to others
Singing your spouse’s praise or at the least venting with the appropriate people without any character assassinations Making negative assumptions about the intent of your spouse’s behavior Giving them the benefit of the doubt Fighting Dirty- name calling, bringing up the past, using terms like always or never Fighting fair-Stay on topic, be respectful Focusing on the negative things the person does Focusing on the positive things they do and the joy they bring Not listening when they talk and not trying to understand the meaning of what they are saying Making a point to listen and understand Playing the blame game Look at your own behaviors and how you affect the other person first Getting caught up in the dailies Make your relationship and your partner a priority Talking down to the person Treating your spouse like a partner who has things to bring to the relationship Only seeing things from your own point of view Putting yourself in their shoes to see things their way Taking your loved one for granted Showing your appreciation for all the wonderful things they do K. Graves Reference: Wordpress.com
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