ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM TOPICS!

12/4/2019

Ladies how often have you wanted to step into the mind of a man? It seems that a lot of men are afraid to express themselves in relationships. We sat down with a few men and gave them the opportunity to speak their minds and we're leaving nothing on the table!

Please respectfully add your responses in the comment section.

Eric, age 43:

Why do women always assume that a man is with another woman when she has not heard from him?

James, age 48

Why do women use sex as a weapon?

Chris, age 39

Why do women want everything once the marriage is over?
Why do women use the kids as a weapon?

John,age 41:

Why do women use the silent treatment instead of talking things out?

Jeremy, age 33

Do you respect us more for saying what we really want upfront?
What is closure?

Q, age 42

Why do women prepare themselves to emotionally shut down before they actually tell their partner the relationship is over?

We would to thank the men who have participated in this article. Now ladies we need you to give them the open and honest answers they are looking for!

Written by K.G

6 Comments

LaSonia West

12/6/2019 10:42:44 am

Why do Women use the silent treatment instead of talking things out? Most of the time when it gets to the silent treatment we(women) have already mentioned what we have the problem with over and over again. We might not have had a full conversation about it. So the silent treatment comes because we feel that you know how we feel about the situation you and just ignoring it.

Quita

12/6/2019 10:47:41 am

Yes we respect you all more if you tell us what you want upfront. No woman wants to be lead to believe that you want a relationship when in reality you just want to be free and kick it from time to time and Nothing serious.

Shon

12/6/2019 07:02:04 pm

Chris.. For some reason a lot of women feel entitled for some reason.

Tawanna

12/6/2019 07:04:35 pm

James.. It's used as a controlling tool because since the beginning of time men have shown a weakness for it. Is it right? No..lol

Cam

12/8/2019 07:04:22 pm

I totally respect a man for being honest and saying what he wants (and where he is) upfront. It allows me the opportunity to prepare myself and/or adjust myself accordingly and there’s less likelihood of misunderstandings or hurt feelings. It also shows me the man has assessed himself and knows what he’s capable of offering at the time.

Tam

5/1/2020 03:01:05 pm

Sex is more than a physical connection. It's emotional and spiritual. I can see where sex can be seen as a weapon from a male's perspective when it was at some point available in the relationship, but then seemingly abruptly unavailable at another point; however, I think what is being overlooked is the emotional and spiritual component of intimacy. I see sex as appreciation for my partner, so it's hard to give to a partner you are emotionally strained with. Another issue for me as a single woman, is jumping outside of my spiritual beliefs to play house with a man and feeling like the relationship is never actually going to result in a marriage. When I notice that we are not emotionally or spiritually yoked then it is inevitable that I shut down physically as well.

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