INTERVIEW WITH THE SINGLE MAN!

View Woman sat down with three single men who agreed to answer questions submitted by our female viewers. These men are attractive, well established and  positive role models in their communities. Check out this exclusive interview from three different point of views!

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We asked all three men 8 questions.
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Male #1 is a single father with a teenage son.

1.When you first meet a woman what is the one turn on and turn off?
A) Smell good is a turn on. Smoking is a turn off.

2. Why haven't you committed?
A) Haven't clicked with the right person at the right time. Either I'm all in and the female is on that BS and vice versa. 
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3. When was the last time you were tested?
A) June 2015

4. Why do men cheat?
A)  Because their father or mother was a cheater. It's hereditary.

5. What is a deal breaker?
A)  5.3 or more baby daddies, bad credit, or non-custody of kids.

6. How important is communication?
A) Communication is tops.

7. What keeps you interested?
A) Good sex and support.

8. What qualities do you look for in a mate?
A)  Nice looking, unselfish, and ambitious.

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Male #2 is a single father of a son and daughter.


1.When you first meet a woman what is the one turn on  and one turn off?
A)The way she carries herself is one turn on. Know how to dress sexy but classy. A loud, ghetto, foul mouth is a big turn off. If every other word that comes out your mouth is a curse word and slang that's a problem. At least act like you have some type of education behind you.

2. Why haven't you committed?
A) It's hard to commit now days. It's not a lot of people who believe in love and monogamy. Marriage doesn't even have a real meaning anymore. As a man, I want a woman with old school values.

3. When was the last time you were tested?
A) I was tested almost 2 months ago.

4. Why do men cheat?
A) Truthfully, a lot of men cheat just for the hell of it. Sometimes a good man will cheat. It comes from when you keep talking about a problem to your other half and nothing is changing. So he finds himself in a position where he loves his woman, but he knows he wants better. So knowing that he ventures out.

5. What is a deal breaker?
A) Well, my biggest deal breaker is a woman with no ambition. I like doing and having different things. So I work my ass to make sure I can do them at some point. The woman should have the same drive. Don't depend on the man. Help the man. Add to the journey so both of you can enjoy life as it's meant to be.

6. How important is communication?
A) Communication is very important. If you can't talk to your other half then you have a serious problem, which inevitably leads to the demise of the relationship. Any problem can be worked out if both parties are willing to do their part in making things better.

7. What keeps you interested?
A) A relationship is like a car. If you want it to last you have to take care of it, invest in it , have fun and be spontaneous. Life is short. If we are going to be together, let's enjoy our life - create memories with each other.  Don't let others' thoughts of you hold you back. There are times you need to just lay back and enjoy the scenery, but there are also times when you need to let your hair down and say let's do this. A lot of your greatest memories will be the ones you were involved in an activity with your mate. You both laughed and enjoyed it. Stay sexy. Don't think just because you got the man you don't have to do what you did to get him. Love him and sex him like you will never see him again.

8. What qualities do you look for in a mate?
A)  I love a woman with a great personality and knows how to dress. No, you don't have to dress like you're going to a night club -  just make yourself look nice. I've seen women look great in sweat pants and a t-shirt. Care about yourself. Be confident...not cocky. There is a difference. Be what you want your man to be...lol...versatile and flexible.​

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Male #3 is a single father of two daughters.

1.When you first meet a woman what is the one turn and one turn off?
A) A turn on is her ability to communicate and/or converse. A turn off is the opposite along with her appearance. I don't do well with a woman that doesn't take care of herself.

 2. Why haven't you committed?
A) Timing. I want to be able to commit fully. Right now it's all about my children, my career, and my future. That will change, but now that's where I am.

3. When was the last time you were tested?
A)  2 months ago, but this is a yearly act for me.

4. Why do men cheat?
A) Selfish. This goes back to the commitment.  Most men that cheat are not in a place to fully commit to anything. He has to recognize that - if not he will continue to cheat.

5. What is a deal breaker?
A)  An unstable woman. That normally comes through conversation and getting to know who you are conversing with.

6. How important is communication?
A)  #1. Without it there is no relationship.

7. What keeps you interested?
A) Challenge! A woman has to be able to challenge me mentally before she does physically. Once you have me mentally the rest comes in parallel.

8. What qualities do you look for in a mate?
A) God-fearing, communicate well, acceptance (I have two daughters), confident, honest -  did I say confident? Appearance - (you don't have to be Beyoncé, but you can't be Celie or Netti either).



View Woman would like to thank all of our female viewers who participated in this interview. We are also grateful for the young men who took the time out to be open and give their honest opinions. Stay tuned because we will feature an "Interview with the single woman" soon. Don't forget to leave your comments!

By K. Graves